The Fresh Start
Name the loop you're actually stuck in — most couples are having one fight in twenty costumes. You'll map yours and hit reset with a conversation that doesn't blow up.
Five nights. Five live sessions. One structured sequence for changing the pattern that keeps you disconnected — so conversations stop ending the same way and the warmth starts coming back.
Until we go live
Hosted by Stephanie Mintz
Relationship consultant & creator of the Relationship Solution System™
Reserve your seat
$47$297one payment · all five nights
Enter your details and we'll send your private challenge link plus nightly reminders so you never miss a session.
Each night you learn one move and practice it before the session ends. This is the same progression at the heart of the Relationship Solution System™.
Name the loop you're actually stuck in — most couples are having one fight in twenty costumes. You'll map yours and hit reset with a conversation that doesn't blow up.
The exact sentence openers that lower defensiveness in seconds, so you can finally say the hard thing and be heard instead of counter-attacked.
How to interrupt escalation mid-fight, and the repair script that closes the loop afterward instead of leaving it to fester for a week.
Rebuild warmth, affection, and physical closeness on purpose — the small daily moves that bring back the feeling you two used to have.
Turn five days into a lasting pattern: your weekly check-in, your early-warning signals, and a simple maintenance plan for the next twelve months.
$47 for all five nights. Private. Nothing to install — just show up and do the work with us.
Get My Seat — $47This challenge is for couples — and individuals starting on their own — who still care and are tired of the same loop.
Taught live, with hot-seat coaching and real questions answered every day.
Fill-in pages so you finish the week with a plan, not a pile of notes.
Word-for-word openers for the conversations you keep avoiding.
The five-step sequence for coming back together after a blow-up.
Quiet, moderated, and discreet — you don't have to do this in public.
Miss a night? Catch it the same day and stay with the group.
“By Day 3 we had our first argument in years that didn't end with someone leaving the room. That alone was worth the week.”
“I came alone because my husband wouldn't. He joined on the fourth night on his own. The scripts changed how I was asking.”
“We'd tried counseling twice. This was the first thing that gave us an actual sequence to follow instead of just talking about feelings.”
The Reconnect Challenge and the Relationship Solution System™ are relationship education and coaching programs from Stephanie Mintz Relationship Consulting LLC. They are not therapy, counseling, diagnosis, or clinical treatment, they do not create a therapist-client relationship, and no specific relationship outcome is promised or guaranteed. Individual experiences vary. If you are in crisis or unsafe, contact a licensed professional or emergency services.
Nothing more is required after the five days. But if you want to keep going, here are the three ways people work with Stephanie — and we'll help you figure out which one actually fits before you spend a dollar.
Stephanie's structured, self-guided program for couples — video lessons, exercises, scripts, and implementation steps that walk you from fresh start through communication, conflict repair, reconnection, and long-term maintenance.
Best for couples who want the full structure and want to work through it at their own pace.
One-on-one or couple sessions with Stephanie for situations that need direct, personal guidance and a plan built around your specifics.
Best when things feel urgent, complicated, or you want her eyes on it directly.
Deeper engagements for blended families, multi-person dynamics, or intensive hybrid work combining the System with private time.
Best for complex family situations or when you want maximum support in a short window.

Stephanie has spent her career helping couples change the patterns that quietly wear a relationship down. Out of that work she built the Relationship Solution System™ — a structured sequence that takes couples from a fresh start through better communication, conflict repair, reconnection, and long-term maintenance.
Her approach is practical and unsentimental: you don't need to talk about your feelings for another year. You need a different sequence, and the words to run it.
Join the Challenge — $47It's $47 for all five live sessions, the workbook, the script pack, and the replays. We charge on purpose — paid rooms show up and do the work, and the couples who get results are the ones with skin in the game.
Come anyway. Most people start alone. Every day gives you something you can do on your own that changes the pattern between you — and partners often join by Day 3 once they see the tone shift.
No. This is relationship education and coaching, not therapy, diagnosis, or clinical treatment, and it doesn't create a therapist-client relationship. If you're in crisis or in an unsafe situation, please reach out to a licensed professional or emergency services.
Every session is replay-available for 24 hours in your challenge hub, so you can catch up the same day and stay with the group.
About 45 minutes live, plus one 10-minute exercise you do with (or for) your partner. Five days, roughly an hour a day.
If both of you still want it to work — even a little — there's something to build on. The five days will also give you real clarity about whether to rebuild or release, which is its own kind of relief.
Kickoff is Monday, September 28 at 7:00 PM ET. $47 for all five nights — registration closes when we go live.